Spicy 101: Beginner Series 2026

How to Be a Great Dominant / Top AND Find a Partner

Think you're a dominant? Well, congrats! You are! Identifying as dominant is a self-selected title, and if that's where you feel comfy, let's make sure you feel confident wearing that title with pride.

Join us as we talk about everything D-type (that's what we call anyone who identifies as some form of a Top!). We're talking about what makes a good dominant and the responsibilities you have to someone under your care. You'll learn about how to further your skillset as a top, and all the "green flags" you should be aiming to embody. Essentially, we're here to build your confidence!

Finally, we're going to talk about how to date as a dominant with tips for putting your best foot forward and finding that subservient partner of your dreams.

About the Educator 

Mistress Kay has a fondness for all things sexual. With a house that's quickly running out of room for all of her reading and vibrating pleasures, she spends her free time reading, writing, and learning about the sexual and BDSM universe with her partners.

That knowledge translates into a dayjob teaching sex and BDSM, photography specializing in boudoir and kink, and her educational website, Kinky World, which has been providing free online BDSM education for over 16 years.

DETAILS

📅 Date: January 13th

⏰ Time: Doors Open 7:00 pm, Class 7:30 pm to 9:00 pm

📍 Location: Wicked Eden, 2912 South High ST, Columbus Ohio 43207

🎫 Tickets: $8 to $15

We recommend purchasing your ticket in advance - our classes often sell out!

WHAT WE’LL HAVE FOR YOU!

• Drinks! The bar will be open with a variety of sodas and mocktails to quench your thirst!

• Snacks! When the urge to snack hits you, we've got you covered! As always, our signature merch is always available!

• Comfy Spots! Places to sit and chill! Floor Pillows! Relaxing chairs. No shoes required (but you do you, boo)

• New friends! We're the coolest spot in the city and it's all because of the cool folks that call this place home.

• Empowerment in education! We provide educational offerings that are fundamentally anti-racist, anti-colonial, and aimed to provide knowledge that arms you for living.

DRESS CODE

When it comes to attire, we want to encourage comfort and expression at Wicked Eden. We want you to feel comfortable and in the mood to have an adventure! We want you to feel safe expressing yourself in whatever you desire. We encourage you to go outside your comfort zone with festive, outrageous, or fantastic clothing you never get to wear anywhere else.

VOLUNTEERS

We LOVE volunteers! Join our team of community volunteers, and you will find new friends, a support system, and a tight-knit center of empowerment. 

By volunteering with us, you can make a meaningful impact on people's lives. Still, you will also get perks such as discounted or free access to our events and classes and, most importantly, collaborative input into what we do here. Your ideas are important to us, and as a volunteer, we want you to feel like you're part of our community: one that celebrates who you are and supports your journey.

VOLUNTEER WITH US

INCLUSION AND DIVERSITY

We're committed to inclusivity. Our community is a tapestry of individuals from diverse racial, ethnic, and social backgrounds, including all gender identities and expressions. We encourage everyone to engage with empathy and curiosity, always asking rather than assuming someone's identity or preferences. Our space is and always will be wheelchair accessible, with multiple spaces for varying sensory needs.

Read more about our Rules and Community Agreements and check the FAQ too.

PLEASE NOTE: No refunds will be given on ticket purchases. The address is provided to confirmed ticket holders after purchase. Wicked Eden is located on the south side of Columbus, approximately 10 minutes from downtown, and is one block away from a COTA bus stop.

ABOUT US

The Autonomy Project is a 501(c)(3) public charity providing resources, education, advocacy, and connection for sex workers, LGBTQIA+ folks, BIPOC, and other marginalized communities. EIN 92-1587440