Anal Stretching 101

While "anal stretching" sounds like an advanced concept, it's surprisingly relevant to anyone putting things up there! The rings of muscle around the bum can stretch and tear, whether you're sliding in your lover's human-sized shaft or want to go big with a dildo straight out of a minotaur BookTok recommendation. When the risks of doing this wrong include anal fissures and infections, we wanna do this right! (This is especially important for anyone wanting to have anal intercourse for the first time!)

Focused on the act of stretching that booty hole, join me as we learn about why you need to stretch, how to do it safely, what the risk factors are, realistic timelines to expect, what toys work best for stretching, and how long "results" can last. Plus, for anyone looking to do this with a friend, I'll be bringing tips! This class is focused on anal stretching, but you can take these concepts work just as well for vaginal stretching and fisting in any hole.

Plus, in what might be the most realistic demonstration you've ever seen in a class, we're going to have a live demonstration of what a stretching session looks like. 

About the Educator

Mistress Kay has a fondness for all things sexual. With a house that's quickly running out of room for all of her reading and vibrating pleasures, she spends her free time reading, writing, and learning about the sexual, femdom and BDSM universe with her partners.

That knowledge translates into a dayjob teaching sex, femdom, and BDSM, photography specializing in boudoir and kink, and her educational website, Kinky World, which has been providing free online BDSM education for over 17 years.

Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/Mistress_Kay 
Twitter: https://x.com/mistress_kay 
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/kinky-world.bsky.social 
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIFfwBKXU7vu37fYRgYUB0Q

Spicy 101 - 2026 Series: Presented by Mistress Kay, Hosted by Autonomy Project at Wicked Eden.

Please stay tuned for future dates, hosted monthly on Tuesdays.

• January 13, 2026: How to be a Great Dominant / Top AND Find a Partner

• February 24, 2026: How to be a Great Submissive / Bottom AND Find a Partner

• March 31, 2026: Basics of Consent and Negotiation

• April 14, 2026: Getting Kinky on a Budget

• May 19, 2026: Beginner Bondage 101

• June 2, 2026: Mixing Pain with Pleasure

•     July 7, 2026: Up the Bum 101 - and - THURSDAY July 30, 2026 (Bonus - Members Only Event): Anal Stretching 101

•     August: Exploring Your Kink Side by Yourself

•     September: Navigating the World of Kink as a Couple

•     October: How to Get Involved in the Kink Community

•     November: Creating a Scene from A to Z

•     December: Keeping Intimacy Private in Close-Quarters Living

Open to people of all experience and skill levels! Attend all of the Spicy 101 classes to flush out your kinky education. 

DETAILS

📅 Date: July 30th

⏰ Time: Doors Open at 7:00 pm, Class from 7:30 pm to 9:00 pm

🎟️ Tickets: $10 - $20

📍 Location: Wicked Eden, 2912 South High ST, Columbus Ohio 43207

Tickets must be purchased in advance, no ticket sales at the door.

MEMBERSHIP & TICKET INFO

⚠️⚠️ Please note that new Member applications close 48 hours prior to the event start time.  ⚠️⚠️

Note: For the safety and comfort of our community, we require memberships for certain events. This also allows us to conduct these specially curated events with your support of our beautiful space. If you're not already a member, you can join the Autonomy Project here: https://www.autonomyproject.org/member. Memberships begin at $20/month and must be approved for at least 48 hours before the event.

If your membership has not been approved, you will not be able to purchase a ticket. Each attendee must have their own account, membership, and ticket purchase. 

WHAT WE’LL HAVE FOR YOU!

• Drinks & Snacks! Our Merch shop will be open (at almost all events) with a variety of sodas and refreshments to keep you going. Our signature t-shirts and stickers are often out as well if you feel like browsing.

• Comfy Spots! Places to sit and chill - floor pillows or relaxing chairs. No shoes required (but you do you, boo).

• New friends! Honestly, the main attraction.

DRESS CODE

When it comes to attire, we want to encourage comfort and expression at Wicked Eden. We want you to feel comfortable and in the mood to have an adventure! We want you to feel safe expressing yourself in whatever you desire. We encourage you to go outside your comfort zone with festive, outrageous, or fantastic clothing you never get to wear anywhere else.

VOLUNTEERS

We LOVE volunteers! Join our team of community volunteers, and you will find new friends, a support system, and a tight-knit center of empowerment. Once you have obtained membership as above, please check out the volunteering section of The Autonomy Project website.

By volunteering with us, you can make a meaningful impact on people's lives. Still, you will also get perks such as discounted or free access to our events and classes and, most importantly, collaborative input into what we do here. Your ideas are important to us, and as a volunteer, we want you to feel like you're part of our community: one that celebrates who you are and supports your journey.

VOLUNTEER WITH US

HIGH POTENTIAL, NO PRESSURES

Our community thrives in a space where countless delightful interactions could happen, but none are obligated to occur. Think of it as "high possibility, low expectations." Outside of our general respect requirements, you are not obligated to interact with anyone in any particular way. This makes our space ideal for new faces and seasoned community members alike.

COMMUNITY GATHERING

Our events aren't the product of one person hosting a party for pay; they result from a community coming together and creating something new. Everyone who attends is expected to co-create with us! Whether that's with time, energy, enthusiasm, work, intention, example, concern, and/or awareness. Have ideas, games, art, or music to share? Want to bring them to life with us?

A FOUNDATION OF TRUST

Our gatherings are magical because of trust. We fiercely protect each member's privacy, encourage honest risk communication, and diligently care for our shared environments. It's our collective respect and integrity that fortify this safe space.

CLEAR AND PRESENT CONSENT

Upholding consent goes beyond preventing harm; it's about affirming everyone's freedom to fully and joyfully agree to their interactions. It's through this affirmation that our spaces thrive with genuine, unreserved participation.

INCLUSION AND DIVERSITY

We're committed to inclusivity. Our community is a tapestry of individuals from diverse racial, ethnic, and social backgrounds, including all gender identities and expressions. We encourage everyone to engage with empathy and curiosity, always asking rather than assuming someone's identity or preferences. Our space is and always will be wheelchair accessible, with multiple spaces for varying sensory needs.

Read more about Wicked Eden's Rules and Policies and check the FAQ too.

PLEASE NOTE: No refunds will be given on ticket purchases. The address is provided to confirmed ticket holders after purchase. Wicked Eden is located on the south side of Columbus, approximately 10 minutes from downtown, and is one block away from a COTA bus stop.

ABOUT US

The Autonomy Project is a 501(c)(3) public charity providing resources, education, advocacy, and connection for sex workers, LGBTQIA+ folks, BIPOC, and other marginalized communities. EIN 92-1587440

Wicked Eden is the physical location owned and operated by the Autonomy Project in Columbus OH.

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